Get out of jail free card...

This is an old joke…
How do you know when a blonde is turned on?
When she says: “Boy am I drunk!”
Now the question is does the alcohol make her a victim or does she make the alcohol her “Get out of jail free card”?
You have an abusive relationship, never mind its specifics i.e. sexual, verbal, or even physical.
The issue is the card: “YOU made me do it”!
I made YOU screw everything that smiles at you?
I made YOU demean or belittle me?
I made YOUR fist beat me?
I had nothing to do with you feeding your ego by beating my face, spirit and mind.
IT WAS ALL YOU!
It was you that said you loved me, but showed otherwise.
It was what you wanted to do, hell be honest, you did it for your own selfish gain.
You did it, tried to get away with it, then forgot about it long enough so that you could repeat it.
I always hear about “personal responsibility” but you are not going to be responsible until you are taken to task…only then…that means consequences.
You cover your tracks (hello you know what you are doing is wrong) apologize after the bruises heal, or make sure your explanation is the only “truth” that is told.
So let’s just say it…
SELFISH ASS COWARDS!
We all know what you did is exactly what you wanted to do.
That is evident by your intent and execution. How can we tell…
The results, it is not what you meant to do, it is what you did.
So please, do us all a favor, put the “get out of jail free card” back in the Monopoly game box.

Jesus...Notorious D.O.C.

So let me understand, conservatives by nature are God-fearing people.
God last time I checked wanted us to be kind to each other. Jesus, as we all know, was prolific as a healer. So if you go according to the lovely marketing strategy …
W.W.J.D?

Would he say David Flores can leave the hospital after being struck by a car? Would he wait for two weeks before the back specialist would see him?
I always thought one thing, I could do a lot of things wrong, but many of them wouldn’t break my mother’s heart? Try having to bury a child.

Would he say universal health care is his father’s will?
Would he say any man regardless of his background or experiences deserves medical attention?
Would he say please don’t allow another person to die because it cost too much?
How much is a life worth to you? How much is your child, mother, father, wife, husband worth to you?

Wow people! Jesus cured the sick, brought the dead back to life, he never said…
Sorry Blue Cross Blue Shield won’t cover him. Eventually we are going to have to ask ourselves are we so consumed with our own insular world that we could care less about someone else? The question is when we are the sick person, when we are the “unlucky” will we say…HELP ME JESUS!

Jesus has not returned, but there are doctors that are healers, that can make the sick well. When are we going to love one another as Jesus wanted?

I write this for many people, but mainly for David and his family.

For your loss I'm so sorry.

If you LOVE me...say it...dont just try to FUCK it into existence!

Now I will be the first to admit…men are visual creatures. We love the sight of a beautiful woman. We need to appreciate the beauty of a woman. However, what I find myself enjoying most…is the beauty of her mind. To me, that is the first and final frontier…

Well, I'm out on a date…things are clicking.

There is chemistry…

She likes me, I like her…

We go to my place to “talk”…

We are lying together “talking”, not a word has been spoken…I stop!

Yes, that is what I said, STOP!

There are questions I have….doesn’t she have questions?

Now, here is where it gets tricky….if you want to have sex on a first date that is YOUR PREROGATIVE!

The issue here is not what happens between two consenting adults…the issue is this... are the two adults consenting?

In becoming seekers of companionship…do we blast past the courtship? Is this truly a society of “Me So Horny”?

This to me is the crux of our sexual relationship pathologies…the circle of a wedding band has driven women or should I just say it…”girls with a woman’s body” to accept an “O”(orgasm for those who don’t know) just to be accepted.

I remember, when I was young man, having to beg, borrow, cheat, and steal to get sex. However, today, in my virtual life, I have seen a disturbing shift.

I actually had a woman tell me, via the internet, that I'm making her wet online…

WTH!!!

This woman has yet to see my face or meet me and she tells me that I make her wet?

I could be a damn ugly ass troll!

This woman was pushing sex with me, while she wrote countless negative blogs about how ALL MEN WANT IS SEX!

Ladies, If what you want is the “O” of a wedding band and not the “O”…try not offering your body ASAP…try offering the possibility of being a wife instead.

Does that mean that you start to plan the wedding during the first date? No, but at least MAKE A MAN EARN YOUR LOVE!

If you have been burned, don’t go into a new forest with a torch in your hand. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. I know there are so many reasons for this situation, fatherless childhood, sexual abuse, victim of cheating, etc…However, you must rise above these demons…you have to…in order to save yourself from even more heartache.

Sleeping around will not produce love, just an orgasm (if you’re lucky), or worse, a pregnancy with a “boy who wear a man’s mask…or worse (and we KNOW there is much, much worse)

Spend time to get to know the “boy behind the mask”, so that you can RUN!!!

I have been using this question on a lot of younger people to offer some clarity…

Before you have sex with someone, can you look into the eyes of your soon-to-be-lover and say…”Yes, I want this person to share a child with me”

If you can not say yes to that question…STOP!!! It is not worth the drama and pain.

We all know that women by nature are romantics…women go back to being natural state…is it easy, hell no, it is necessary….HELL YEAH!!!

Pain comes with a price, and so should love. Make us pay that price…you are worth it.

We will love and respect you for it.

Until there is justice for all...no rest

http://www.truthdig.com/report/item/20090420_wheres_rev_wright_when_yo...

Until you do right by me, everything you even think about gonna fail!

That is it...I said it...

America is not a child running around with temper tantrums...Its a super power that claims to practice one thing but does another.You cant do the future building if the foundation of the past is riddled with hatred and oppression that permeates our present.

Women make 71 cents on the dollar vs men!Could not vote or own a business at the conception of the constitution.

But cmon man we have made strides...yup more thing to hate.

Racism, religious oppression, gay-bashing, sexism, insular thinking.

Just remember...til you do right by US there is not a U.S.A.

Its a Man's World...At this pace that will be all that is left

I know this is long, there has been a lot of bad I have seen in the past few weeks. There have been young ladies that I have heard speak in a way that if you were to close your eyes you would swear that it was that no good man at the club that uses a date rape drug to get his sex. And then I see on the New York Times bestsellers lists Steve Harvey’s Act Like a Woman, Think Like a Man. WTF? How this is becoming our societies cancer is so evident…MEN… ITS US WE HAVE BECOME THE HO, THE SLUT, THE WHORE, THE WALKING FUCK TOY!

Imagine a world…without women…it’s easy to see because we as men are trying. Emotions can easily change the chemical make-up of how childbirth happens. Some of us know, that we men dictate the gender of the sex of a child. Knowing that it is possible that we men have been so driven on the conquering of the “Pussy World” that we have become like sexual locust, sucking the love of our women dry.

I say this as an extreme look at what men (fellas, I use “men” loosely) are working so hard to satisfy our sexual libidinous egos. Where are the boundaries? Where is the end game? How did the extreme become the norm?

Bust down vs. Wifey Material…the definition. Amazing how many words are synonymous with the word bust down…

bustdown 1 sound slut hoe trick bitch ho tramp whore bussa skeezer skank runner prostitute train easy chickenhead bust down bobblehead used ugly jumpoff bobble head blockhead std skeeze skeez hooker hoodrat head harlot freak dip creeper cock wiggler busty buster busta bust bussdown bd
Above is the lexicon that we as men use far too damn much. I have always enjoyed how many words there can be for something negative.

Wifey Material-
Wifey
A phrase often used to describe a girl whom you feel possesses certain qualities that qualify her to be a model wife for you. 1) Kind 2) Sweet 3) Caring 4) Compassionate
This is the lexicon than we need to learn as well as get our focus on. Only thing far more noticeable is how this phrase has only a definition, i.e. truth.
So with all that said, MEN act as if! We have a responsibility to save our women from us. If another man does a woman wrong, let’s step up and show her that is a moment, not her life or her future. She is not a “bustdown” she is a woman that played a game she should never have entered.
She is not a slut, she is a S.L.U.T.S. © By the way this is copy written, just so you know.

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We owe them better than that; these are our mothers, sisters, aunts, and daughters. Don’t damn them for making bad mistakes, especially when we know pain was behind it…that and a predatory man. We can’t fall behind the excuse; “you can’t make a hoe a housewife”… she was made that way because we were not acting like a husband. If you know you are with a woman who has pain, you know sometimes better than she will, don’t add to it subtract from it. Why is it so needed to fuck every one that offers it just because your dick is hard? We know that women are not wired to be all about sex, but we use their insecurities to gain sex. We network to get pussy better than we do when looking for a job! We need to network to make things right, we can’t give our women their dignity, but damn DON’T TAKE IT AWAY!

We want the right kinds of women to make our partner…why are we damaging so many of them that we have more baby mama’s than we have wifey material in our world?

Next blog will be…THE WOMEN…IF YOU LOVE ME SAY IT…DON’T FUCK ME.

America may see Obama's face...What does the world see?

Seek not to change the world, but choose to change your mind about the world. What you see reflects your thinking. And your thinking but reflects your choice of what you want to see. -
The quote at the bottom of the picture. From A course in miracles.

It is so interesting as to the blatant vitriol that has come out since Obama has been ELECTED president. It has worn the mask of a group of people that proclaim their patriotism, that is being placed in question due to one thing…his face.
You see his face is that of a black man, not biracial, not a descendant of a Kenyan, but that of a black man. To a small percentage of Americans, that is a horrible thing!
Actual quote from the patriots...

Hatred, is what brought this country to being.

Obama has opened that whole black issue again and set us back 50 years or more!

And Obama is not the President, it is Pelosi incognito!

Osama/Obama is the same, the only difference is the B and the S.

His wife is not proud of her country until her husband gets to be a presidential nominee!

Well, well. It is time to bring up something that has not been spoken…image.
Yes America, the world is looking at your image. You know the one that is post-racial, but lacks the racial sensitivity to know that a cartoon of a bullet-ridden monkey is inappropriate. The fact that you called a black man a terrorist, not just any terrorist, but the boogeyman of terrorist. The fact that our President's citizenship is being questioned, but the previous administration put America and its citizens on EBay to fund a war that was created on the foundation of fear and deception. There are a lot of countries that have questioned our moral high ground in the past, but now we are giving credence to the accusation.

I have fondly enjoyed the “America-love it or leave it” attitude that is the theme song playing in our country. But when it comes to wage increases for our "public-servants" in comparison to what the working class has received in the past 25 years is astonishing. No worries, Your government cares right? Senators and congressmen get increases as often as a MLB player get HGH.
We lack health care, a progressive educational system, and our infrastructure…let’s just say it SUCKS! But America has played partisan politics and attacked countries that couldn’t pull off 9/11 if they had Timothy McVeigh as the mastermind.

And just when you thought it couldn't get any worse…the economy went to crap. The banks are getting bailed out and we are taking the blame as well as picking up the tab. That’s right it is Americans fault…we got loans from banks by deception, right? I find this relatively amusing...
Don’t worry we can do whatever we want…we are America! We can owe other countries billions, they will get the money when we get it. They will never call in the markers. Our image is great…we won WW2 remember…resting on your laurels much?

Well as our government plays footsie with our economic future, a subset of White America is having a damn fit over a “black man” being president, its like a child being told it may have been the first born but its no longer the favorite. Well you know what that means...CLEAN UP IN AMERICA! The big baby is getting louder and louder...but the world is watching our fits! Makes the "democracy" stance we try to project look like a hypocrisy stance. Know this...the smart part America is not the only group fearing an assassination attempt...the world is watching our next move.
Lets not forget playing war with our soldiers as if it’s a video game. I wonder how long will it be before some other country decide to play along and becomes Joshua the next time we want to play the “global police”.

I know that Ron Paul is sometimes suspect but, what he says is correct....America needs to move out of its empirical stance and leave other countries alone. In the end, America looks like occupational bullies to the rest of the world…we've become Russia with a better propaganda machine. Taking this "Big Brother" stance on the world stage is not working and partisan, class, or racial blame is not a solution.

As for me…I'm Ice-T at the end of New Jack City…As for America...oh well...the world is watching…I would love to know what they see.

My Take On The Obama Experience

I remember for a long period of time where I constantly asked the question…exactly, what did Martin Luther King do? I remember how it was always said he and the Civil Rights Act go hand in hand. But I always questioned the country, our country, that needed an act to uphold the law. So the law is in the books? Racial discrimination is in the books? So the question is why did we ever need an act? We didn’t, so MLK is not as important as we thought he was. Then there are the community organizations he worked with. There are the many people whom had had enough of the racism, not of race. He represented something, the possibilities.

You know what I mean, the moment the dream is no longer the slogan, but the goal. Where in 2004, a keynote address gave America a alarm call, I believe someone can back me when I say right after that I made a couple of phone calls and said “you just saw the next president”. That’s right, “the next president”, he wanted an America that has said one thing, but history clearly follows another. Oh the possibilities, an America that does not exist under the “minority of me”, but the majority of U.S. All.

When he(you know whom I speak of…”that one”) started on his campaign to become Senator, Obama was seen as a cash cow for several candidates outside of his state, as well as his race. Oh the possibilities, he won and assisted others walk into new positions.
For me, I was not sold on the man with big dreams, but lofty words. I guess you can say im never one to be inspired by rhetoric, but by acts. So let me be honest…I was not on the first stop of the “Obama train”. I was skeptical, resistant, and above all just damn tired of hearing people saying one thing while doing something else behind the scenes.
Well he kicked my candidate’s butt right out of the primary, I was still skeptical. Then, the hate begun. Hope may have been his slogan, but America did what it does best, it became a hater. Hope has no place in this country, unless you are amongst the oppressed.
I saw friends turn on each other, arguments start based on speculation that had nothing to do with the election. He is NOT experienced…his opponent is? I would imagine that unless at a debate if you are not introduced by the title of President, you are not experienced in running this country.
But guess what, he made people feel good. He symbolized hope to many, regardless of the esoteric definition that the word brought. Oh the possibilities, people had hope, the nation sought change. I remember having a discussion with someone who told me that the election was not over, his insular bubble popped on Nov. 4th. That’s when hate felt fear again…what will we do…we have a black president. Here is my suggestion…leave the country!
Its amazes me when I hear America say they are tired of hearing race, but out the other side of the neck say “we are afraid of what is going to happen now”. If you want race to go away, embrace the possibilities. That’s right the possibilities…imagine what could be!

Oh the possibilities, imagine that we brought education to the proper priority. Oh the possibilities, seeing that infrastructure is a top priority. Oh the possibilities, we can stop chasing a check and start chasing our dreams. Oh the possibilities, we can stop the dialogue of I will never understand, and start saying help me understand. Oh the possibilities, the two party line stops with the burning of oppressed American skin, by using a velvet rope to show us…we were NEVER us. Oh the possibilities, we can be we, for once.
In closing, does Obama represent a post-racial America? No he is just a representative of…the possibilities.

Human Vs. Humanity 11282002

DAMN,WHERE IS THE SECOND COMING...
THE UNDOING.
THE HUMANITY IS FLEETING...
AND THE CONCLUSION IS OUR RUINING.
WEVE BECOME TOO JADED...TOO CYNICAL...TOO COMMON DENOMINATOR.
VAGUENESS AND DECEPTION...OUR TERMINATOR.
WHERE IS THE HOPE FOR A BETTER FUTURE.
NOW HOPE HAS BEEN REPLACED BY A PRESENT CONNECTED BY A WEAK SUTURE.
THE LINES BETWEEN RIGHT AND WRONG ARENT BLURRED...THEYVE BEEN CROSSED.
PANDORA'S BOX HAS BEEN OPENED...THROWN AWAY...AND LOST.
KARMA IS WAITING TO GIVE ITS POETIC DUE.
BUT WE DONT WANT TO PAY...WE JUST WANT TO GET THRU.
HAS IT GONE SO WRONG THAT COMPLAINTS HAVE REPLACED TRYING.
HAS THE POWERS THAT BE STOPPED US FROM FINDING A CAUSE THAT A LEADEREXCEPTS THE END BEING HIM DYING.
HONOR HAS BEEN REPLACED BY PSYCHO-BASED EXCUSES.
WE BETTER CLEAN-UP OUR SHIT BEFORE WE FIND A BOMB THAT WE REFUSE TO DIFFUSE IT.
OUR SOCIETY NEED A HUG AND A KICK IN THE ASS.
BEFORE OUR FUTURE LOOKS LIKE OUR PAST.
AMEN
SAYNT

I can dream can't I?

I rarely ever use a background that doesn’t matter to me, this time is no different. I love the show “Heroes”, or any show like it. I am often inspired by the linear distinctions of good vs. evil. It is liberating being an American to see the juxtaposition of our reality and our entertainment. The contrast can ,on the surface, be almost clear cut. But there has always for me been this connection to all of them…in order to be a cool character you need a special power.

A power to fly, read minds, invincibility, and of course some type of weapon can be harnessed from your eyes or hands. I find these powers to be so limiting, as well as the imagination of the writers.

Then there are the great minds…the Charles Xavier’s of the sci-fi world. They have this zen like quality that makes me always ask the following questions:

Why if the characters with powers of the mind are great, why do the uber-minded people have little or no control?
How can we be so fearful of being omnipotent?
Is it not true that the mind is limitless?
Why must I delve deeper into the minds ability and find nothing more than a sociopath?

I call it the “elementary school mentality”, the smarter you are, the less likely you are to be “cool”. You need to have the escape tactics in an effort to be “cool”, look at me I can fly…I have long claws that can pierce anything.
I understand that this is nothing more than a sci-fi debate, but go deeper, isn’t that our problem…we scoff at intellect, or it is generally we have intellectual measurements that gives us the “haves” and the “have nots”. We honor muscle and abhor the mind. We celebrate emotions, but stifle the very thing that controls it.
Imagine a society where intellect was placed at the forefront of our priorities. Imagine a world where there were 30 Bill Gates, 100 Einsteins, or 1,000,000 Malcolms. Well I guess we will be satisfied with a flying man or a mind reader…

I just hope one day we will be driven to have every mind that can read.

Vacation?...Take Your Ass To Work!!!!!

That’s right get off your ass and serve your country, your town, and above all yourself…
Go to see your tax dollars at work…go see your representatives in your state or see your Congress or Senate. Ask them for your time, ask them questions, tell them your concerns.
Protect yourself and those around you. Get involved, hell make it a family vacation, take the kids let them know what is going on, explain to them why this visit is so important.

Im looking at Obama, thinking to my self…DAMN, I don’t wish to be him! Why? Because how can he get his own supporters to understand the most relevant statement he made during his campaign…YOU ARE THE CHANGE YOU HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR! Get up, stand up and tell those whom you pay, get out of my way…you are blocking my view to change! You have the power use it!

I’ve heard so many friends talk to me about cruises and trips abroad, but im going to see if my government can actually produce. I need to know why my life was in jeopardy this winter…why did they not plow? I need to know why I cant afford a degree, while making 50,000 dollars…why can I get a grant, when all I want to do is teach 3rd graders? Why does my tooth hurt…I’ve got health care benefits from my job, but I wont eat for a month if I go to the dentist…isn’t it time for universal health care? How did I get pulled over so many times last year…isn’t there a mathematical and scientific way to prevent racial profiling?

Damn! They owe us, we invested over a billion and a half to campaigns in the last year and a half! But capitalistic driven companies got corporate welfare while saying I make to much money as I get thrown on the streets because I don’t have the money to have a lawyer present at the signing of my mortgage? How many people are screaming…my ARM hurts!

All I am saying is people, this is a relationship, if we let them treat us bad they will. Lets be present in our relationship with those who would cheat on us if we look the other way.
We can kick them to the curb and find someone to love!

People went to the inauguration just to see history made, imagine the possibilities of seeing laws that we can read and understand. Laws truly for the people, we can make it happen.